business-card-frontWhen I was growing up, my grandmother tried very hard to turn me into a lady.

There were some discussions on which salad fork to use and a few threats on what would happen if I didn’t send out thank you notes. I’m pretty sure that those thank you notes absolutely typify the differences between the way men and women network.

Ladies Are a Little Less Forthcoming…

I’m getting ready to head to SXSW for the second time this spring. I’m going mostly to network and I’m hoping to learn from a few things I noticed last year.

In particular, guys seemed to be a lot more outgoing about introducing themselves to anyone who came along.

A lot of the ladies that I went around with would have impressed my grandmother with their restraint: they were very polite and weren’t particularly pushy about getting to know new people.

If a woman acted the way some of the gentlemen I met did — pushing a business card into someone’s hand, asking a lot of questions about their business and so on — my grandmother would have tsk’d a bit.

But those guys definitely are great networkers.

Good etiquette aside, it’s worth going a little outside of your comfort zone when you’re networking, whether it gets you really excited or not.

Personally, I know I’m always in danger of hanging back a little or staying with a group of people I already know. At the very least, it feels a lot more comfortable.

… But Ladies Have an Advantage

Those thank you notes I mentioned? Those proved to be great training for networking. I’ve received (and sent) follow up emails and thank you notes that have built incredible relationships.

In my experience, ladies may not network with every person that they meet — but the quality of our networking is much deeper. We build better connections overall.

While I know I’m going to have to redouble my efforts to avoid being a wallflower or just talking to those people I already know, I’m not afraid of letting some networking prospects get away.

I know that I’ll still be talking to a lot of the connections I make this year well into next year (because I’m still talking to plenty of people I met last March).

I’m armed with plenty of business cards and I’m raring to meet some new people.

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Thursday Bram offers content marketing through Hyper Modern Consulting, as well as more traditional writing services. She’s also the co-creator of Constructively Productive, the blog that’s bringing perspective to productivity. You can find Thursday on Twitter.

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Back in the day

when business and social etiquette were acknowledged as necessities and not exceptions, there was a certain decorum that ruled: be polite, be kind and don’t interrupt.

However, it seems that as we’ve become more connected, we’ve also become more disconnected with the basic rules of engagement.

Although the reasons for this might be multi-factorial, e.g. multitasking or the modern need for immediate, instant gratification, the rules of engagement have not really changed.

To help us through these modern-day dilemmas, Women Grow Business is proud to welcome Ms. Interwebz, our favorite Agony Aunt, to our pages.

Read on for her first column.

Dear. Ms. Interwebz,

I’ve been tweeting for about two months now and I’m wondering how to break into conversations.

Is there a general roadmap I need to look at before or should I just jump right in?

Sincerely, Newbirdie

Dear Newbirdie,

There’s a general rule in social circles that applies whether you are on- or offline: “listen before you leap.”

It’s safe to assume that when folks are talking amongst themselves, they aren’t talking to you, right? By all means, join in; that’s the way we get to know one another and make new contacts.

However, don’t be the elephant in the room!

Ask yourself why you want to engage and, more importantly, whether or not you are focusing on your own goals or have an agenda that is different than the conversation at hand.

Dear Ms. Interwebz,

I witnessed three of my Twitter followers having a conversation the other day about a project I am intricately involved with that really ticked me off.

It was clear that they had their facts wrong and it was obvious that they were just shooting at the hip. What’s the best social rule of thumb here?

Sincerely,

Stupid is as Stupid Does

Dear Stupid is as Stupid Does,

Make humor the first choice.

If you feel like you disagree or have been slighted, it’s critical to stand up and defend yourself, right?

Well, not so fast.

Step back and remember that sometimes people are engaged in conversation out of shortsightedness rather than evil.

On the networks or in an actual face-to-face situation, assume the best and then proactively and kindly let folks know that they have overstepped the boundaries of acceptable decorum.

What’s more, as my hero Miss Conduct says, “calm, self-assertion sprinkled with a wee bit of humor” may ultimately yield the best result.

Have a pressing question about social etiquette, engagement or networking? Ms. Interwebz is here to help, just shoot her an email.

Giving credit where credit is due, and more…

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Regular contributor Liz Scherer aka “Ms. Interwebz” continues to learn (and break) the social netiquette rules on a daily basis. A digital writer and consultant, Liz specializes in health/medicine/wellness. She produces Flashfree which brings her closer to her goal to engage, entertain and provide women in midlife with the tools to make informed decisions about their health. In addition to her blog, you can find Liz on Twitter or LinkedIn.

You too?

If you’re in the DC metro area, you may be interested in this event coming up on September 28.

What: Women at the Top: What Kinds of Influence Exist, and How Can Women Use Them to Build Their Own Success. It’s a discussion with with Selena Rezvani, MBA.

When: Tuesday, September 28, 2010

6:00 – 7:00 PM – Discussion
7:00 – 8:00 PM – Reception

Where: The Johns Hopkins Carey Business School DC Center, 1625 Massachusetts Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 20036.

Selena Rezvani is a recognized author, speaker, and consultant on women and leadership. She is the founder and president of NextGenWomen, LLC, a consulting firm whose goal is to propel more women into leadership positions and to help companies position an inclusive workplace as a competitive advantage.

Rezvani established NextGenWomen while writing her debut book, The Next Generation of Women Leaders: What You Need to Lead but Won’t Learn in Business School and after identifying the need for Generation X and Y women to be seen as a viable talent pool and leadership pipeline.

She has been quoted, interviewed, and profiled by CareerBuilder, The Wall Street Journal, ForbesWoman, NBC television, ABC television, and in April 2010, began a regular commentator role on NPR’s The 51% Perspective.

Our own Stacy Yamaoka says,

“I met Selena when she presented in San Francisco to Future Women Leaders and her presentation about women on top was fantastic!”

If that’s what Stacy says, that’s good enough for me. You can register here.

If you attend, do let us know, and perhaps write a recap guest post for us?

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Based in the Washington, D.C. area, Women Grow Business editor Shonali Burke is the IABC-accredited, award-winning principal of Shonali Burke Consulting, which specializes in “integrated communication to the nth degree.” In other words, she turns your communication conundrums into community cool. She blogs at Waxing UnLyrical, under the watchful eyes of Chuck, Suzy Q. and Lola, her three rescue dogs. Her long-suffering husband has accepted that Shonali can most often be found on Twitter.

Sound familiar?

My friend needed the exact service I offer, but went with someone else…. why not me?

Been in this group for years but not finding it useful a referral source … why not me?

I help a lot of people but don’t get much help… why not me?

Before you have another ‘why not me’ moment

here are some simple tips to change the dialog. (Image: Cynthia A. Bartha, Creative Commons)

Email

Does every email you send have some sort of tagline that reminds people of who you are and what you do? Does your signature make it easy to check you out and to connect with you?

Signatures  are generally simple to set up on email. Yet I belong to a consultants group where maybe a third of the women on the fairly active list have a signature block. Fewer still have a tag line saying what they love to do.

This group is not unusual. A lot of the email I see has no signature block. You do not need a long one or graphics/logos or something that takes 5 minutes to load.

But a good, clear tag line and some relevant information gives your readers a reason to notice, to connect, and maybe even to learn enough to work with you in the future.

Me – I need to go improve my own. What do you need to do?

Social Media

Whatever your preferred platform, how effective is your presence?

I use LinkedIn and have for years but am still need to be more effective. My old presence triggered recruiters to contact me about regular HR jobs and, as I tweaked it, about leads for various business positions. Now I get too many pro bono work requests.

Future-focus your information for the business you want to attract.

Demonstrate your relevant background, expertise, relevant skills, (whatever!) in the language and ideas. Clearly communicate your current business value.  Show me why I should contact you. And any social media needs to be kept current.

For years I have told clients how bad their websites are.

CEOs are always surprised a human resources advisor knows…

until I show them the impact on the top quality talent they say they want to hire and the business they want to attract.

What does your blog, LI or FB page – every tool you use – really say about your goals? Does it support your mission and create a professional impression?  Is it current? Well-written? Attractive? Properly targeted?

Connecting

Are you making real connections or are you just playing networking numbers?

Do you really think in terms of steady long-term relationships?

Most of us get to know a lot of people over time. Years ago

I was at a community event and a man I worked with at times walked by. Startled by my saying “hi,” he stopped and finally said, “Gee, I didn’t recognize you with clothes on.”  Well, of course, he had only seen me in uniform.

We both laughed, although it took his wife a few more moments to join in.

How many of your online connections would not recognize you if you just sent them an email directly or saw them at an event?

“Why not me?” Because those people have no reason to help you.

Think of your network in terms of what you can do for each individual in it. Make it about providing help and ideas. I don’t mean you waste business time helping folks who are not likely to ever reciprocate.

But choose to make your connections into human connections, not just a “network.” If you offer to do something, do it. If you can go out for coffee, do so. If you can take the relationship to a deeper level, do that.

Help them and help them help you.

The bottom line

You have 24 hours each day you live. You choose how to spend each minute.

And nothing I have suggested takes a lot of time. But each tip above can be worth your investment.

What could you do today, and each day, in just 5-10 minutes, to change “Why not me?” into a chorus of folks saying:

“I know just the person.”

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Regular contributor Patricia A. Frame is an experienced management consultant, speaker, and executive with expertise in human capital. Launching a new Women Grow Business series on human resources for small business, Patricia is founder of Strategies for Human Resources. She helps small to mid-size organizations achieve their goals through more effective human capital strategy and management. She can be reached through her website SHRinsight.com, where archives for her ongoing management series can be found.

Business owners know that connecting with other executives, mentors, and industry experts must be a key component of a growth strategy.

They also know that there aren’t enough hours in the work-week to attend every networking function that they would like to attend – especially in the DC region where there could be 8-10 high-profile, competing networking events on any given day. There are so many events now in this area that an individual could attend a breakfast, lunch, dinner, and reception event every day of the week and still not make the rounds to every event out there.

So how does one decide where and with whom they should spend their valuable time?

This was one of the excellent questions I received this past weekend when I presented at the inaugural Women Grow Business Bootcamp (photo of Marissa at the boot camp by Shashi Bellamkonda (cc), www.shashi.name | Social Media Swami | www.networksolutions.com).  In response to that question, I reflected on the process I use to evaluate organization membership.

First, analyze your objectives for joining specific organizations, and for attending specific events.

Some of the reasons people attend networking events or join networking groups include:

  • Learning/education
  • Business development/lead generation
  • Meeting specific individuals that are affiliated with a specific group
  • Competitive analysis
  • Brand-building
  • Taking a leadership position (committee member, Board member)
  • Expanding your social circle
  • Emotional support/personal connections

Every decision a business owner makes must be tied to the strategic objectives for the company’s growth. This includes evaluating which networking organizations and functions are most closely aligned with your strategic objectives.

Second, create a budget for networking and membership.

When considering the budget, it’s important to determine how you will measure a return on investment.

If a membership costs $2,000/year, are you anticipating contracts (through new contacts) that will exceed the $2,000 plus the cost of doing business? Are you expecting to meet a certain number of strategic partners? Are you working to build your brand recognition? Do you anticipate learning about specific topics that are relevant to your overall business strategy?

It’s important to factor in additional expenses that are outside membership fees, including fees associated with activities such as networking breakfasts, lunches or dinners, awards ceremonies, retreats, and conferences.

Third, realistically determine how much time you can dedicate to networking, and who else in your organization can/wants to participate.

Candidly assess your schedule and the competing demands in your life. We’ve all joined organizations with the best intentions of attending the majority of events, but often business and life gets in the way of networking. For example, if an organization hosts monthly lunches that run from 11:00 – 1:00, realistically you should set aside 4 hours of downtime to attend that event.

While the event may “feel good” and give you an opportunity to connect with interesting, enjoyable people, at the end of the day, does it impact your bottom line?

There is an “opportunity cost” to attend functions. What are you NOT able to do because you are attending this events? Write proposals? Meet with customers? Engage with your employees?

Your time is valuable, and the allocation of that time is either an expense or investment.

Fourth, correlate your organization affiliations to your growth strategy.

In other words, visualize where your company will be a year from now, and determine which groups can help you get there. Which groups will connect you with the people you need to meet your goals? You shouldn’t join a group based on where you are today.

Rather, you should join a group based on the future vision of your company, so that you can grow into your group, and your group to foster your growth.

Fifth, make your decisions based on logic.

It’s very easy to get caught up in the “fun” of networking when we are trying on a regularly scheduled event or organization for size and the right fit …

To read more of Marissa’s column, check it out at the DC Women’s Entrepreneurship Examiner, from where it’s been excerpted with permission and minor edits.

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Guest contributor Marissa Levin is Founder and CEO of Information Experts. Marissa was named a 2008 BRAVO Award winner, and a Smart100 CEO for both 2009 and 2010, by SmartCEO Magazine (which honors the region’s 25 most influential women CEOs); recently she was listed in Washington’s 100 Technology Titans by Washingtonian Magazine. She is also the DC Women’s Entrepreneurship Examiner. Describing her true passion as “helping other business owners be successful with their own business growth,” Marissa can be reached through her blog Marissa Levin.

 

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Is your business getting left behind by digital marketing? Be sure to check out 5 Key Digital Trends That Matter to to Your Business, by Rieva Lesonsky, so you don’t miss out.

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Women business owners are growing strong. Want proof? Read Rieva Lesonsky’s post More Women Business Owners Pass the $10M Mark.

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You know ecommerce is growing, but do you know how much? Etailers Rejoice: Ecommerce Spending Hits New Records by Maria Valdez Haubrich has the skinny.

Maybe Showrooming Isn’t as Scary as You Think. Read Karen Axelton’s post to find out the latest on this retail trend.

Want to know the hottest target markets for mobile marketing? Read Rieva Lesonsky’s posts Women Step Up as Mobile Users, Customers and Meet the Mobile Super-Shoppers.

B2B marketing is a world of its own. Get the latest on what works in that world in Monika Jansen’s post 4 B2B Marketing Blogs From People Who Walk the Walk.

Learn what a new Web.com study found about the outlook and attitudes of women business owners. Read Rieva Lesonsky’s The State of Women-Owned Businesses, 2013.

Good news for women entrepreneurs: Angel Capital May Get Easier for Women Business Owners to Find. Read Rieva Lesonsky’s post to learn more.

Do you want to keep on top of the latest small business marketing trends? Read Monika Jansen’s post 7 Marketing Trends That Benefit Small Businesses.

Wonder why your marketing efforts fall short? To see what you’re doing wrong, read Maria Valdez Haubrich’s post Marketers Are From Mars, Consumers Are From Venus.

Want to make more money? Who doesn’t? Read 6 Easy Ways to Boost Your Revenue This Year by Monika Jansen to get started.

Are you working harder and getting less done? The culprit could be multitasking. Read Rieva Lesonsky’s Is the Multitasking Myth Hurting Your Productivity?

Email’s an effective marketing tool, but are you using it right? Read Monika Jansen’s 7 Quick Fixes for Common Email Marketing Mistakes to find out.

Social shopping is the next big thing…or is it? Read Karen Axelton’s post Social Shopping Isn’t Taking Off Just Yet to get the scoop.

Curious about what Facebook’s Graph Search might mean for the future of business? Read Monika Jansen’s post 5 Ways Facebook’s Graph Search Could Help Your Social Media Marketing.

Are You a Victim of Nice Girl Syndrome? Read Rieva Lesonsky’s post to find out if you’re too nice for your own good.

Does your business website need a tuneup? Read Monika Jansen’s 6 Ways to Improve Your Website and Deliver the Information Your Customers Need.

No, it’s not too early to ask: Are You Ready for Holiday Retail 2013? Read Karen Axelton’s post to find out how online retailers are readying for bigger and better sales.

Then refresh yourself on the basics of ecommerce with Maria Valdez Haubrich’s post 7 Reasons Customers Buy (or Don’t Buy) From Your Business Website.

Is Your Family Really Supporting Your Business? From time to time, you need to take stock of whether your work-life balance is getting out of balance. Read Rieva Lesonsky’s post to learn more.

Boost your profile by writing an ebook. Read Monika Jansen’s 7 Tips for Creating Your First Marketing Ebook to learn how.

Are you trying–and failing–to land government contracts? Learn where to get help in Rieva Lesonsky’s post Women Business Owners Lose Out in Race for Government Contracts.

Content marketing is hot today–but how do you keep your content fresh? Start by reading Monika Jansen’s post 5 Keys to Creating Valuable Content.

Then check out Monika’s series, 7 New Ideas for Valuable B2B Blog Posts and 7 More New Ideas for Valuable B2B Blog Posts, to get inspiration.

Are you in the restaurant or food industry? You won’t want to miss Rieva Lesonsky’s post Americans’ Taste for Healthy Eating Continues.

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Can’t decide between suppliers? Read Karen Axelton’s How to Choose a Supplier for Your Small Business before you make your final choice.

What do luxury shoppers want today? Read Rieva Lesonsky’s Luxury Marketing Goes Digital to find out the secrets of marketing to luxury consumers.

A gift shop’s success is based on the visual aspect of what they do. People need to see the items to buy them. So how do you get them interested in your gifts when they’re not in the store, but without spending a lot of money on advertising?

There are three social media tools every gift shop owner can use to build interest and traffic to their stores.

Facebook

Start a Facebook page for your store, and invite your customers to like it. Then, communicate with them on a regular basis, but for more than just promoting your store’s items. Ask questions, like “what was the best gift you ever received?” or “what’s the funniest gift you ever gave?” to keep people coming back and interacting with your page. It will teach them to check out what you have to say on a regular basis.

Instagram

Instagram is a mobile app that lets you take photos, apply creative filters, and share them with your Instagram network, as well as Facebook. Take photos of some of the cool stuff in your store, especially as it comes in, and share it via Instagram.

Pinterest

Pinterest is another app that works on your laptop or your mobile phone. See a picture of something you like, and pin it to your “board.” While most people use it to pin pictures of things they find on the Internet, you can also use it to pin the Instagram photos you shared on Facebook. Pinterest is also a good way to take photos of stock items you’re thinking about bringing in to the store and asking your customers for their opinion.

A few days ago, we talked about using Tumblr as a way to promote your blog to your potential clientele. We wanted to delve into the new growth of Tumble-blogging, and how you can use it more fully.

Tumblr (no ‘E’) has been embraced especially by Generation Y who wanted something more informal and easier to use than a regular blog. While a regular blog is just as effective — if you have one, don’t abandon it — there’s something hipper and funner about a Tumblr blog.

The first thing to do is claim your Tumblr blog. Go to Tumblr.com, and set it up using your gallery name — StevesGallery.tumblr.com — and set the background theme the way you want it.

Next, download the Tumblr app to your mobile phone. Take a few minutes and familiarize yourself with how it works. It’s pretty easy. Just take a photo on your phone (or choose one from the gallery), type in some text, and upload it to your Tumblr blog. Unfortunately, you cannot send more than one photo at a time this way.

You can also email several photos and copy at once to your Tumblr blog. Each account is given its own special, secret email address. Put that in your phone’s address book. Then, when you take a series of photos, attach them all to an email to your Tumblr account, add in the text, and then send it off.

And of course, you can also upload a series of photos to your Picasa or Flickr account, and then copy the embed code for a slide show into your email and send that off, or just go to Tumblr.com on your laptop, and write the post like you would any other blog post.

Then promote the posts via your social network and use it to build both search engine traffic and foot traffic to your gallery.

Are you familiar with the term “mastermind group?” You may hear it called other things, but basically, it’s a group of people who are closely aligned to your business’ success and growth. These are people you meet with on a regular basis, so you can contribute to each others’ success.

A mastermind group can be built around a certain industry or niche, like residential real estate, which includes a Realtor, a mortgage broker, an attorney, a handyman, and anyone else who might be related to that specific niche.

The group could be built around a certain type of people, like small business owners or marketing directors. People who want to share new information and ideas with each other, so that they can take it back to their own jobs and do them better.

Or it can even be based on geography, like all the retail businesses in a particular neighborhood. While some of them may compete, they instead focus on the general health and prosperity of the neighborhood, and share ideas on how to run their businesses better.

The idea is to find people who share a common business goal and can work together without competing. They come together once a week or once a month to share knowledge, share ideas, and even share leads with each other.

The Realtor can refer new clients to the mortgage broker. The marketing directors can bounce ideas off each other, and give advice. A small theater and a restaurant can team up to sell special dinner-and-a-show packages.

Whatever you do with your mastermind group, leave yourself open to the possibility that some very creative and beneficial ideas can grow out of it.

We’ve talked about the importance of online social networking for the last several months, but we don’t want to ignore the importance of meeting people in person. This kind of networking is just as important to growing your business as online networking is.

Here are three benefits of doing real-world networking:

1. Networking events lets you meet more than one person at a time.

We like networking events where you get to meet a lot of people at once. Not only does it increase your odds of meeting people who can have a positive influence on your life, it lets you be more visible within your community. Your Chamber of Commerce, business networking groups, and even local industry groups are all places to network.

2. Read nonverbal cues, and learn about a person’s passions.

Sitting down and speaking with someone face-to-face lets you hear the excitement in their voice when they tell you about the things that excite them. It’s a bonus when that passion is their work. It helps you understand why they love what they do, and helps you make connections for them later on.

3. Create deeper relationships than you can online.

It doesn’t matter how well you get to know someone online, you will never have as deep a relationship as you can by talking to them in person. You need to see their face, hear their voice, and see their nonverbal communication to get to know them. You’re creating, in a loose sense of the word, a friendship, and you just can’t do that through a keyboa

Let’s say you own an ice cream parlor, along with three other parlors within a five mile radius. You can win a search any time someone looks for “ice cream shop” or “ice cream parlor” when they do a search while they’re in your city, or do a mobile search on their phone.

The biggest trick that will help you win this mobile search is registering your business on Google Places.

Claiming your Google Places spot does one very important thing for you: it tells other people how to find you on Google and on the maps. And if you’re the first ice cream parlor in your neighborhood to do it before your competitors, you appear higher in the search than the other ice cream shops.

Log in to your Google account with your Gmail address and password (register for one if you don’t have one yet), and then enter in the necessary information. You’ll enter your business address, hours of operation, methods of payment you accept, any photos and videos, and anything else you want customers to know (free parking, specialty flavors you offer, etc.).

While Google typically wants you to list a mailing address, home-based and mobile businesses can also participate. Just put in your home address, and when you get to the section on Service Areas, select “this business serves customers at their locations.” Google will hide your address from the map, which means you can maintain your home’s privacy, and/or avoid any confusion with customers who may want to find you in person.

Your web content is the thing that’s going to make or break your search engine optimization efforts.

In yesterday’s post, we started talking about how important content is, but we didn’t want to include it in the list of three blogging SEO tips. Not because it’s not important, but because it’s very important.

One thing Google wants now is high-quality content, and they ignore content that was poorly written.

In the past, content writers did everything they could to cram as many keywords into their copy, often at the expense of the writing quality. Now, bloggers need to focus on making their content the best it can be. The keywords should almost be an afterthought — not something you ignore completely, but don’t spend any more than five minutes on them.

Since Google looks at things like time on site (they assume people spend more time on a page reading well-written content), it makes more sense for you to focus on making each blog post or web page the very best it can be.

If that means hiring a professional, consider it money well-spent. If it means writing and rewriting until it’s just right, then take the time. And if it means having a couple of friends tell you what they really think of the writing, then steel yourself and ask them to look it over.

As long as the end result is well-written and interesting, people will read it. If it’s not, your web traffic and search rankings will suffer.

One online guerilla marketing tactic is to write blog posts and other content that capitalize on the hottest trends going on that day. But how do you practice this real-time communication and real-time marketing, and find out what’s going on locally, nationally, or even internationally as it’s happening, rather than after the fact?

Start with Hashtags.org, which keeps track of the different Twitter #hashtags. If people are talking about it, it’s on Hashtags.org. To see how popular a topic is, visit the site, and either look at the most popular topics on the front page, or do a specific search for a topic of your choice to see what kind of traffic it’s generating.

We also like TweetLevel, a Twitter monitoring and ranking tool. You can find people who are influential about a certain topic (which you found on Hashtags.org), and start interacting with them, or place them in a Twitter list so you can follow them more easily.

With this information, you can now create your own content — blog posts, tweets, videos, podcasts, you name it — and capitalize on the popularity of the subject. Write your post, then tweet out the URL, using the same hashtag.

Next, find the influential people who are talking about a particular topic, and respond to their comments and questions. Share your own content with them. They may share your stuff with their own networks, where it can be seen by tens of thousands of people. Do this often enough, and you can be recognized as a voice of authority within that field or topic as well, and become your own influencer.

In a previous blog post, I talked about how to use a blog to drive traffic to your ecommerce store where you sell
specialty sandwich cutters. But how do you know if it’s paying off?

With Google Analytics, the free analytical package that shows you your web traffic performance, you
can see what’s working and what’s not.

For example, let’s say you published your post on “Five Fun Sandwiches for Kids” on a Monday. By
Friday, you’ve sold 100 of your sandwich cutters. How can we find how many of those sales came as
a direct result of the blog post?

First, we check out the Google Analytics page, and see that the post has generated 1,000 visits this
week. We can see how long everyone spent on the page, where they came from, and even where
they went.

In our hypothetical case, of the 1,000 visitors, we can see:

  • 600 of them came from Facebook, 300 came from Twitter, and the other 100 came from a
    variety of other sources.
  • 80% of them spent 1 – 2 minutes on the page, 10% spent 5 minutes on the page, and 10% spent
    less than 1 minute.
  • 100 of them clicked a link that took them to another page on the website (we can even find out
    which page), 800 of them left as soon as they read the page, and 100 of them went straight to the
    sandwich cutter catalog page.

By switching over to the Google Analytics for the sandwich cutter page, we can see that 50 of our
visitors actually bought the $15 sandwich cutter.

Based on all this, we can determine that 1) our blog post resulted in 50 sales this week; 2) it
generated $750 in gross revenue; 3) it has a 5% sales rate.

Without Google Analytics, we would never know what a particular blog post, or even a week of
traffic, has done for our business.

There are several social media review networks and apps where people leave reviews about their favorite (and not-so-favorite) restaurants, businesses, doctors’ offices, and retail clothing stores. Sites like Yelp, Foursquare, UrbanSpoon, FoodSpotting, and OpenTable all encourage users to leave comments and reviews of the restaurants.

Back before we had social media, people would frequently complain when they were unhappy, but rarely give public compliments. These days, people are more willing to share when they’re pleased, and are more likely to leave positive reviews.

Restaurant owners can help encourage these reviews, and using them to their marketing advantage, by trying these quick tips:

  • Remind people to check in on Foursquare, and ask them to leave a tip about
    their favorite appetizer. If you have a free wifi network, name it [RESTAURANT NAME]
    _dont_forget_foursquare.
  • Hold a weekly or monthly contest where people send their Foursquare checkin as a tweet with a
    #hashtag with your restaurant name.
  • Leave a tablet tent that says “Love us? Hate us? Leave a Yelp comment” and a QR code that
    takes people right to your Yelp page.

That last tactic is a bit of a calculated risk, because you’re showing people the exact path they need to take to complain too. But if your staff is on their game, this won’t be a problem. And if people do complain, we’ll tell you how to fix the problem tomorrow.

Restaurants need to keep track of what’s being said about them, but it’s not enough to watch each
and every review site — at one count, we saw over 10 of them, and that didn’t include networks like
Twitter, Facebook, or anyone and everyone’s personal blogs.

You could spend all day online looking for mentions of you and your restaurant, and you’d still miss
them all.

That’s why we like Google Alerts as our brand watchdog.

The search giant indexes millions of websites a day, looking for any and all important keywords,
including yours. So why not put that to work for you?

Go to Google.com/alerts, and enter your
restaurant name. “Use quotes” around the name if it has more than one word; that tells Google to
find exactly that phrase. Otherwise, it returns all instances of all the words, regardless of where they
appear on the page.

Set the Result Types to Everything, How Often to Daily,
and How Many to All Results.

This way, you will receive a once-a-day email of any and every time someone mentions your
restaurant name in a blog post, news article, or restaurant review. Then you can respond accordingly,
either thanking the person for the compliment, or offering to fix any problems.

There are other tools to help keep track of your restaurant brand and name (i.e. setting up a search
column on your favorite Twitter client), but Google Alerts will save you time while still keeping a
watchful eye on your brand.

 

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If you’ve got a Facebook Page for your business (which is different from your personal profile), you’ll want to know how it’s performing, to make sure you’re getting the most out of it.

That’s where Facebook Insights comes in handy. It gives you some basic analytics to see how your page is doing in terms of visits and interactions. According to the Mashable.com’s Beginners Guide to Facebook Insights, there are two basic insights you want to look at:

  • User Insights: Total page Likes, or a number of fans, daily active users, new Likes/Unlikes, Like sources, demographics, page views and unique page views, tab views, external referrers, media consumption.
  • Interactions Insights: Daily story feedback (post Likes, post comments, per post impressions), daily page activity (mentions, discussions, reviews, wall posts, video posts).

    This tells you how your page is doing, whether people are visiting, which pieces of content they like the most, which ones they don’t like, and even what they share and tell other people about. And with things like external referrers and media consumption insights, you get to see what brought people to your page — was it a Google search or tweet? — as well as what they looked at, read, watched, or listened to.

    Keep in mind that these insights are all anonymous. You can’t see who came to your page, but you can see how many did. By seeing this kind of data, you can get a good idea of which parts of your content and conversation are doing well, and which parts aren’t. That lets you choose what to focus on and what to drop.

When you’re trying to find people worth following on Twitter, you don’t want to just follow everyone when you’re first starting out. I mean, you can, and there’s nothing wrong with it. But if you’re trying to save some time or reach the most number of people in the shortest time, you need to reach the most influential people in your city.

We like two tools in particular that can help you find those people, the people who can motivate people to new actions, to read or visit certain websites, and even to try your restaurant.

Twitter Grader is a tool that shows a person’s Twitter rank out of a possible 100%. Anyone who is above an 80 is pretty influential, and you’ll even see a lot of 99.7s and 99.8s. While this isn’t everyone in the city, it’s at least a good indicator of who’s doing Twitter right, and has the followers to show for it.

TwellowHood.com is a Twitter locator that groups people by looking at the location they put in their Twitter bio. To find influential people in your city, visit Twellowhood, drill down to it in the map, and then follow everyone who has more than 100 Twitter followers, but not over 20,000. We’re setting the bar very low, because the people with a few followers may be fairly influential, and the people with more than 20,000 may not pay much attention to you.

While there are other tools to do the same thing, we like these because they’re easy to use and fairly accurate.

If you’re new to social media marketing and you’re trying to promote your business, there are a number of books you can choose from to get you started. One book we’re partial to is Shama Kabani’s The Zen of Social Media Marketing: An Easier Way to Build Credibility, Generate Buzz, and Increase Revenue.

The book is written for the social media marketing newbie, giving readers some basic insights into the different tools you can use — blogging, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Google+, group coupon sites like Groupon, and video — and some of the best practices that will get you the traction you need for growing your own business.

We’ve found that a lot of small business people just don’t have the time or patience to sit down and learn how to start using social media at a high level. But the thing Shama’s book does very well is explain why it has to be done, and then finds the easiest ways to get you up and running as soon as possible.

Shama uses simple language and simple ideas to explain what may be seen as a complex and unwieldy marketing channel. If you’ve been letting social media marketing’s overwhelming size be a reason to stay out of it, what will happen when that becomes the biggest game in town and the only efficient way to reach your customers?

Hint: That day is already here. You’d better get started.

If you’ve been on the fence about whether social media marketing is right for your company, The Zen of Social Media Marketing may be one of the best books you can get.

A couple days ago, we talked about how you can promote your store with Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest. Pinterest is a great way for people to share cool photos of things they have done, things they want, and even ideas for things they would like to do. We wanted to talk a little more about how you can use Pinterest successfully for your own gift shop.

We’ve seen food recipes, things to build, and things to buy. Pinterest is a good way for people to communicate simply and easily, and even use it to manage special events, like a wedding registry.

1. Start by growing your network.

Add people to your Pinterest network by following them. Since social media is based on reciprocity, people will follow you back. And as you re-pin and comment on their items, they’ll do the same for you (plus you may find some great stuff to bring into your store). If you already have a big Twitter or Facebook following, import those users into your network for a quick network boost.

2. Post photos of your best inventory online.

You can either use Instagram and share photos to your Facebook page or upload the photos to your Flickr or Picasa account, and then pin those. Create a board of “Cool Stuff In Our Store,” and let people know what you’re sharing.

3. Pin photos directly from your ecommerce store.

We talked about building an ecommerce store yesterday. If you actually have one, pin photos of your inventory. If someone clicks the photo to be taken back to the original source, which many people do, they will be taken right to your store’s page and that particular item. If they’re impulse buyers, you may get a sale out of it.

Twitter can be an invaluable tool for restaurants. They can use Twitter to communicate with fans and regulars, which will keep them coming back. Fans become regulars, regulars become evangelists. You need more of these people, and you can use Twitter to do it.

1. Get a Twitter handle for your restaurant’s name so that people know it’s you. @JaxBurgers is too generic, but your own name — @SteveSanderson — is too unknown. Pick the shortest possible name that people will still recognize: @PunchPizza, @Thr3eWiseMen, @BoogieBurger are all good examples.

2. Respond to people immediately. Whether they’re asking for directions, asking about the specials, or complaining about the service, respond immediately and publicly. Twitter is a great way to reach a lot of people easily, so even if you’re answering the same questions over and over, keep doing it. People will see it. And when people complain, if you can solve their problem, they’ll tell their friends you did, and people will see that too.

3. Ask fans to share photos, answer questions, or even help decide your next menu item. There are a couple of restaurants where I live that have asked their Twitter fans to vote between two different food items for their menu. It increases fan engagement, and their friends see that communication, which boosts word-of-mouth marketing.

One hint: When @replying to tweets, if your tweet starts with the @ symbol, only people who follow both of you will see it. But if you drop a space in front of the @, then everyone who follows you can see it.


One of the least expensive and most effective advertising tools you can use is Facebook. Unlike your other advertising options, Facebook advertising lets you reach exactly the people you want to reach for pennies per ad.
The great thing about Facebook advertising is you can specify exactly who sees your ad on their Facebook page. Unlike radio and TV advertising, Facebook lets you target a specific group of people, and is only seen by that group.
Facebook advertising lets you specify how much you want to pay per ad, and even lets you put a daily cap limit so you can stretch your budget further.
You get to choose who sees your ad, based on their demographics and their likes. For example, if most of your customers tend to be 20-somethings who live inside the city limits, you can target the ads specifically to them.
When you buy your ads, choose their age, gender, city, how much you’ll pay per click, and the daily cap limit — say, women between the ages of 25 – 35 who live in Miami, FL, with a click rate of $.50, and a cap rate of $30. Write the web copy, drop in an image, and launch it. Make changes every few days, and see which versions got more traffic.
Send ad viewers to your home page, or to a specal offer page of your choice.
Facebook advertising lets you reach potential visitors in a way no other medium can. Use it wisely and it can be one of the biggest traffic builders you’ve ever used.

This week, we’ve been talking about salons and spas, and how they can use social media to promote themselves. During our research, we found an interesting story about one particular salon that, with the help of a digital marketing agency, saw some impressive social media success.

Jocelyn Rimbey is a digital marketing manager with the Cyphers Agency, and helped the Robert Andrew Salon and Spa reach their audience with social media. We were so impressed with the results, which Jocelyn blogged about, we thought they were worth mentioning.

First, Robert Andrew had a reputation management issue to solve, namely a few negative online reviews, plus a former employee running their own personal smear campaign. Robert Andrew also needed to overcome a lack of awareness by most potential clients.

So Jocelyn’s agency created an Ambassador Program that asked long-time, loyal clients to share their love for Robert Andrew with their own social networks. By using Flickr, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitter, Robert Andrew received some excellent traffic, and more than 40 positive reviews to counter the negative ones.

Here are some of their wins:

  • Flickr Photo Views: 47,727
  • YouTube Video Views: 1,389
  • Facebook Page Views: 3,257
  • Twitter Post Views: 517
  • Review Site Posts & Views: 300
  • Online Forum Posts & Views: 333
  • Robert Andrew Blog Views: 168

Of course, it doesn’t take a digital agency to do all this; you do need to invest time into it. But the payoffs can be stellar, making social media one of the most cost-effective (and successful) marketing channels available.


Salons and spas that want to take advantage of social media’s popularity should look at these three tools as a way to promote their business online.

Pinterest

This is the sharing site that lets you show your friends, “I like this!” by pinning things you find online, or photos you take. Pin something to your board, and your Pinterest (and Facebook) friends will see it and repin it. It’s become a smash hit, especially among women, who make up anywhere from 58% to 97% of their total traffic, depending on who you talk to. Take photos of new products, new techniques, and even of your best work, and pin it. Ask your clients to do the same.

Instagram

Another photo sharing site, but this one is only of the photos you take; you won’t share things you find online. By applying some fun, artsy filters to the photos, you can take pictures of clients, your salon or spa’s new decor, or even after a fun day with friends. You can even encourage your clients to share photos of themselves on Instagram and Facebook, which you can then Like, or even pin to your Pinterest boards.

Yelp

Yelp is a review site where people can give reviews of restaurants, clothing stores, and — you guessed it — salons and spas. While you won’t be able to write reviews about your own place, keep an eye on your own entry to see what’s being said about you. Encourage clients to leave positive reviews, and if someone leaves a negative one, respond positively and publicly. Let others see you solve customer service issues.

The best way to grow your restaurant’s Twitter network is by following people who are likely to visit you. That means local people, not people who live in other states, not celebrities, not other companies. Here are three ways you can grow your restaurant’s Twitter network quickly.

1. Put your Twitter handle on your menu. Give people a 5% discount or free soft drink for following you and then tweeting a message with your handle in it. While that may seem like a premium cost, keep in mind that you’re not only getting a new follower, you’re getting word of mouth marketing out of it too. Some marketers would pay $5 apiece for a contact like that.

2. Follow people in your city. Use Twellowhood.com to find people in your area. Also, look for #hashtags about certain local events or festivals, and follow people who live in the area. Talk with them on Twitter after the festival as well, and invite them to your restaurant.

3. Follow who your competition follows. Go to the competition’s Twitter page, see who they’re following, and then follow them. You want to follow the people they are following, rather than the ones who are following them, because they’re (hopefully) following locals. But they can have all sorts of spam accounts following them, so you don’t want to bother with that. Also, don’t worry about following celebrity accounts and national brands. They won’t be patrons, so save your energy.

Home service pros rely on word of mouth for spreading the word about their business and reputation. Thanks to social media, that part of their job has become both easier and more difficult.

How so? For one thing, if you do a good job, people will tell their friends. When someone posts on Facebook that they’re looking for a home service pro, their friends will chime in with the name of “their guy.” And the new client will call up the professional given to them by the person they trust the most. On the other hand, it means if you do a bad job, they’ll tell their social networks as well.


So how can you manage your reputation to make sure your reputation is protected and people will call you?

1. Set Up a Google Alert for Your Name.

A Google alert can tell you whenever new occurrences of your name or company name are created, which saves you from having to check every day. Go to Google.com/alerts, set up new alerts for your terms.  You will receive emails on these terms on a daily basis, or as they appear — you can determine how frequently you want to be notified.

2. Respond Publicly and Positively to Any Complaints

If there are any complaints about you online, don’t argue, don’t fight back. Apologize and offer to fix it. You may have to swallow your pride, but when people see that you tried to make it better, they’ll know you’re focused on doing good work and keeping customers happy.

3. Post Testimonials to Your Website

Make sure you have a testimonials page on your website, then post any testimonials you receive. Site visitors will see how many happy customers you have and be more apt to trust you.

Pinterest is an online pin board where users share, or “pin,” photos of things they like, so their other friends can see them. You can organize your photos into different boards — things I want, organization, weight loss motivation, recipes to try, travel planning, childhood memories — and browse other people’s boards to get inspiration from them.

We’ve seen boards dedicated to fitness, home decorating, wedding planning, healthy eating, favorite desserts, skin care tips, you name it. Then, as the pinners are surfing the web, and they discover a photo of something they like, they pin it, add it to their appropriate board, and write a suitable description that explains what they liked about it.

There are a few cool things about Pinterest that make this more than just a bulletin board though. For one thing, whenever someone clicks your pinned photo, they’re taken to the original website where you found it, like, say, a book page at Amazon.com. (Idea: Create a birthday wish list board and pin the photos of items you want.)

Another possibility is to use Pinterest to promote items you sell. Pin photos to your salon or spa’s “Items We Carry” board, and put up the photos of new products. If you have an affiliate sales account (i.e. you sell someone’s product from someone else’s site, and get a commission), you can even post photos from those sites, and then sell those products.

Of course, you don’t want to post only sales photos. People come to social media to escape advertising, not be bombarded with it. Use your sales items sparingly, mixed in with your fun and interesting “pins.”

Even for doctors and dentists who don’t want to publicly join social media, we recommend that you at least give LinkedIn a try. LinkedIn is a professional network that lets people connect on a professional level, as compared to Facebook, which is all about personal connections.

Facebook lets you talk to family and friends, but LinkedIn lets you connect with colleagues, former med school classmates, and anyone else you interact with on a professional basis.

By connecting with colleagues, you also have access to their network as well. For example, if Dr. A is connected to Dr. B who is connected to Dr. C, Dr. A can ask for an introduction to, and make a connection with, Dr. C. This lets each person increase their network, which can lead to several interesting opportunities for the future.

There are even specific groups you can join, converse with other members, and exchange ideas and information with each other.

The Medical Doctor Network has over 12,000 members and is a very active discussion list, while the Doctor Jobs Portal is a place for doctors to find new positions. And the Doctor-Engineer Portal is for doctors and engineers who want to work together on new medical device projects. There’s even a Junior Doctor Forum – Australia & New Zealand, which is only for junior doctors in those two countries, or international doctors licensed to work in those two countries, and Doctor Jobs Down Under is for Aussie doctors looking for their own new jobs.

Even if you eschew all other forms of social media, try LinkedIn as a way to improve your professional development and growth, adding to your network of colleagues, and possibly taking your career in new directions you never even considered.

Instagram is a mobile app that applies different filters to photos you take on your digital phone, to make them look more artistic, more creative, or even 60 years old.

But it’s much more than that, it’s a community of photo sharers who not only want to express themselves creatively, but share the interesting things they encounter throughout their day.

As a salon or spa owner, you can harness that sharing, and increase the word-of-mouth marketing for your business by asking your clients to share their Instagram photos on your Facebook page. This will do two things for you: 1) It will get your clients to share information about your salon or spa with their friends, thus showing them some of the great benefits you offer; and, 2) It will provide content that your page members can comment on and interact with, which will bring them back on a regular basis.

So how do you get your clients to share their photos of your salon or spa? For one thing, just ask them. Make sure there’s some signage hanging that tells people you’re on Instagram (and to Like your Facebook page). Hold a photo of the week contest (winner gets a small prize). Offer to take photos while someone is getting a facial or in the middle of a cut. And take your own photos of clients and put them on your page (with their permission, of course).

Instagram is an instant content provider and conversation starter among your clients. Take advantage of its growing popularity.

Many medical practices — doctors’ offices, dental practices, emergency care, and even hospitals — are hesitant to join social media because they’re worried about what could possibly go wrong, especially around the areas of HIPAA and patient privacy. But they’re also worried about what kind of information they can share online. Here are four do’s and don’ts for medical practices to follow on social media, while steering clear of any potential problems.

1. Don’t reveal patient information.
Of course, and you already know this, but everyone in your office needs to know it. Doctors never revealed patient information when they got their first fax machine, their first email account, their first website. Social media is no different — follow the same rules and behaviors you do for the other technology.

2. Do share important health information
Sharing information from newspaper articles and health journals about the importance of exercise and good nutrition are always helpful. Articles on the importance of too much sun or not enough vitamin D are good. Anything you can do to help your patients stay well is worth sharing.

3. Don’t get too technical with your information.
Remember, you’re trying to find new patients, not impress other doctors. Your blog and Facebook page are not a suitable place to share the article you wrote for the medical journals, and it’s not really the place to engage in medical discussions with colleagues. Use a network like LinkedIn for those discussions.

4. Do limit your social media presence
A medical practice doesn’t need a wide social media footprint like, say, a digital marketing agency does. Stick with Facebook and Twitter, where most of your patients are anyway, and share the things that will be of interest to them.

When we talk to medical practitioners and practices, including hospitals, about social media the one concern we hear over and over is that they worry about potential HIPAA violations.

The short, almost flippant, answer is “you didn’t violate HIPAA when you got a fax machine, email, or a cell phone. Just do the same things you did when you weren’t violating HIPAA with that technology.”

And for the most part, that’s usually enough to keep you out of trouble. But there are still some important points that people don’t think about. So here are our recommendations for doing social media in an age of HIPAA.

  • You can’t acknowledge a patient’s compliments, because to do so would be to acknowledge that they were a patient. While it’s one thing if a person compliments you via Twitter, it’s another thing if that compliment shows up on your Facebook page. You should remove those, unless you can make the person anonymous (and you can’t).
  • The same is true for complaints. Unlike a restaurant, which can offer to fix a problem wherever a complaint is made, you can’t do that. Instead, develop a standard message where you urge any and all people to contact your office directly. And then remove the complaint from your page.
  • If you offer testimonials on your page, remove any and all identifying information. Refer to the patient by their initials, or at least first name and last initial. Never refer to any specific symptoms or ailments online.
  • Keep your personal and professional accounts separate. Don’t friend patients at all with your personal account. And try to encourage more than just patients to “Like” your practice page.

There are still some subtle nuances about HIPAA that confuse medical practitioners about what can and can’t be done. If you’re not sure, check with your compliance officer or another doctor for the answers to any questions you may have.

 

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